Let go of control

and start living your soul-inspired life.

Let go of control

and start living your soul-inspired life.

Have you been wondering whether it is possible for you to feel more ease and freedom in your life? It can feel pretty lonely when you've been trying to manifest a big goal -- whether that's building a business, losing weight, getting fit, being a better parent -- and you find yourself stuck in procrastination, desperate hustle mode, or you've been successful but feel stressed as heck.  

Working with Femke has been truly transformational. She has an ability to hear what's not spoken and call it out with deep compassion and care. She helped me reconnect to my core essence of who I am and what I'm called to do. When you find that magical place and start to embody it, the work flows through you and what emerges is simply a beautiful and true expression of who you are and what gifts you were born to share with the world.

Diane G

Online Course Creator

Are you secretly wondering, "Why the f@#k am I still stuck?" 

It can be so frustrating and lonely to have a goal or a vision of what your life and not being able to get there. Not to mention the shame that goes with it. Or to get there, but to feel stressed out and exhausted, even further removed from yourself than ever.

For over 20 years I've been studying why this is, and why therapy, coaching and LOA often don't get you the results you deeply desire. I've made a video for you explaining exactly what is missing and what is really needed to feel the freedom and ease, so you can manifest whatever the heck you want. You can access the video right here:

What's your escape alter ego? 

In an interview, Jim Carrey shared his take on the difference between depression and sadness: "Sadness is from happenstance. It's in the moment. Depression is your body saying to you 'fuck you, I don't want to play this character anymore. I don't want to hold up this avatar that you've created in the world. It's too much for me.'" Whether it's depression, exhaustion, feeling burnt out, dejected, these are all the result of our escapes. But rather than saying "fuck you" to them, let's have a little bit of fun with it. Which alter egos show up for you? You can scroll through the images below. 

It doesn't matter whether you are checking off all of the boxed for success or if success has been eluding you for a long time, if you find yourself stressed out, tense, and you feel disconnected from who you truly are, even if you've "tried it all", then there is a missing link that has the power to truly set you free. 

This missing link is not addressed in coaching and therapy, let alone in the law of attraction or manifestation industry.

And yet it keeps your nervous system activated, taking you hostage in the form of escape mechanisms, like procrastination, perfectionism, numbing yourself, overwhelm, excuses, etc) 

This missing link is your relationship to the sensations of powerlessness in your body. 

Think about it this way: if you didn't feel powerless in certain situations, your nervous system wouldn't need to get activated. You'd feel in charge. 

And the problem is that these sensations of powerlessness show up in many different ways: In the form of other people's opinions, when you experience a need or desire, when you don't understand something, disagree with someone, etc. 

But also when you feel more positive emotions like joy, carefreeness, playfulness, connection, intimacy, and trust. 

If you'd like to find out more about how this works and how you can truly manifest your soul-inspired outcome from a place of relaxed trust and a grounded sense of peace and ease, then check out the video about it.